Be aware of this and realize that he’s okay with disappointing you.
Don’t be with someone who doesn’t do what they say they’re going to do.
In other words, don’t assume that your relationship means you only interact with one half of a couple.
I’m totally fine with this, but on occasion I’ve felt like I was getting sucked into the couple’s problems, or like I was expected to have no individual relationship with my partner — that I always had to go through his primary partner.
A couple years ago, I dealt with a striking situation along these lines. He had a girlfriend, but I thought they were polyamorous.
The sexual chemistry is palpable, but you’re looking for a long-term thing — not just a hookup.Sometimes, polyamorous people put this much more succinctly: “You can’t date half a couple.” If you’re emotionally involved with one person, you’re involved with their other partners by default …even if you’re not having a sexual or romantic relationship with their other partners. He and I were highly attracted to each other from the start.You deserve a fcking phone call.” ― Greg Behrendt “I'm about to make a wild, extreme and severe relationship rule: the word busy is a load of crap and is most often used by assholes. Ron made a noise that might have indicated jubilation or disgust, it was hard to tell."Because she was crying," Harry continued heavily."Oh," said Ron, his smile faded slightly. ""Dunno," said Harry, who hadn't considered this, and immediately felt rather worried. The word "busy" is the relationship Weapon of Mass Destruction. Relationship anxiety can arise at pretty much any stage of courtship. At its worst, our anxiety can even push us to give up on love altogether.